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Getting a good night’s sleep is something that tends to elude a lot of us. Establishing a good nightly routine can be a big help with waking up in the morning rested and refreshed. A consistent nightly routine is essential for optimal rest. Follow along for the next 7 days to find a better way to go to sleep and improve your nightly routine.
Establishing a nightly routine is more than just a series of tasks; it can significantly enhance your overall well-being. Bedtime routines arent just for for children. By dedicating time to unwind and relax before bed, you signal to your body that it’s time to transition from the hustle and bustle of the day to a restful state. Engaging in calming activities such as reading, meditating, or practicing gentle yoga can help clear your mind and prepare you for sleep. Consider incorporating herbal teas, such as chamomile or valerian root, that are known for their sleep-inducing properties to further enhance this process.
Integrating a nightly routine into your life can also provide a sense of stability and predictability that many find comforting. Are you wondering how to create a bedtime routine? One step to consider is creating a checklist for your nightly routine to ensure you take steps each night to promote better sleep.
Moreover, the environment in which you sleep plays a crucial role in how well you rest. Make your bedroom a sanctuary by keeping it clean, dark, and cool. Consider using blackout curtains to ensure that no light disturbs your sleep. Additionally, using a white noise machine can help mask any disruptive sounds that might wake you during the night. The right mattress and pillows tailored to your sleeping position can also contribute immensely to a good night’s sleep.
What time should I go to bed?

The first step toward establishing a good bedtime routine is deciding when you should go to bed. There are a couple of things to consider here. Your weekly routine is part of it, as is how much sleep you need per night. Letโs look at these things and discuss how you can use them to guide you toward a good bedtime for yourself.
How to Calculate a Bedtime Routine for Adults
Figuring out your nightly routine can take some figuring. You need to make sure both your bedtime and your rising time meets your needs in terms of what you have to accomplish each day.
Start with Your Rising Time
Look at your weekly schedule. Is there a certain time you have to get up? Many of us have to go to work or get the kids to school. Start with when you know you have to leave the house. From there, think about how long it takes you to get ready. Are there any morning routines that will take additional time? Do you have to get other people ready, fix breakfast for everyone, or start a load of laundry before you leave the house? Add all that time up and come up with an estimate of when you need to wake up to get it all done.
Check out My Morning Example:
For example I know I want to fix a simple breakfast and listen our daily prayer with my husband. I also want to check my Trello schedule for the day, look in on emails, download orders and get some of my computer work done before leaving the house. Tuesdays and Thursdays I head out for my yoga class by 9:10. My alarm goes off at 6:00 am giving me 3 hours to get my day started.
Then Figure Out Your Bedtime
Understanding your sleep patterns can also aid in creating an effective nightly routine. Tracking your sleep can help you identify how long it takes you to fall asleep, how often you wake up during the night, and how rested you feel in the morning. There are various apps and devices available that can assist with this, providing insights that can help you tweak your bedtime habits for better results.
Iโm calling this an estimate, because if you donโt currently have a good routine and are winging it, your first guess might be off by a little. Thatโs okay. As long as youโre in the ballpark, it wonโt be hard to make a few adjustments.
What to do with a variable schedule?

The next question is what do you do if your schedule changes from day to day, or what do you do about the weekends when you donโt have to be anywhere at a given time. Itโs a good question and the answer is simple. You want to get into the habit of waking up at the same time each day. Even though your schedule varies, your wake up time and therefore your nightly routine should stay the same.
That means you want that time to be the earliest you have to get up during the week. If that means getting out of bed at six every morning, then thatโs the time you want to pick. It may not sound like a lot of fun, especially if youโre struggling to get up that early right now, but thereโs a reason for it. It will become routine and after a few weeks of getting up at six every day without fail, it will be easy. Trust the process and give it a try.
From my example above you might have thought that I don’t really need 3 hours to get everything started for my day. Why don’t I get up at 7:00 or even 7:30. The answer is because on Wed. I work out at the YMCA an hour away. My standing appointment is at 8:30 which means on Wed. I have to leave the house by 7:15. That just gives me 1-1/2 hours to get my day started.
Determine how much sleep you need.
Next, decide how many hours of sleep you need per night. Most people need between seven and nine hours. If you’re not sure the optimal number of hours of sleep you personally need try starting with 8 hours and go from there. Letโs stick with the six am wakeup example. To get eight hours of sleep, you need to fall asleep by ten pm at night. Since none of us can put our head on the pillow and fall asleep, a good bedtime would be nine thirty.
Limit Your Screen Exposure
It’s essential to limit exposure to screens in the hour leading up to bedtime. The blue light emitted from phones, tablets, and computers can interfere with melatonin production, the hormone responsible for regulating sleep. Instead of scrolling through social media, try picking up a book or engaging in a relaxing hobby. This transition will not only foster relaxation but also encourage your body to prepare for sleep.
Calculate Your Needed Amount of Sleep
Now itโs your turn. Whatโs the earliest you need to get up? Subtract eight and a half hours from that time and make it your regular bedtime for a week or two. How does that feel? If you consistently wake up well before your alarm, you may only need seven hours of sleep. If you still feel tired after establishing your bedtime routine, you may want to try giving yourself an extra half an hour of sleep and see if you do better with that.
Incorporate Mindfullness Practices
Additionally, consider incorporating mindfulness practices into your nightly routine. Mindfulness meditation can reduce anxiety and stress, paving the way for a more peaceful sleep. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and guided imagery can also be beneficial. Creating a personalized wind-down routine tailored to your preferences will enhance the effectiveness of your nightly schedule.
Getting Cozy Helps

Ultimately, prioritizing a reliable nightly routine lays the groundwork for healthier sleep habits. Establishing bedtime routines for adults is not just about sleep; itโs about creating a peaceful environment for your mind and body. Engaging in a nightly routine can help you manage stress better and improve your overall quality of life.
With a strong nightly routine, you can wake up feeling rejuvenated and ready to tackle the day ahead.
Lastly, don’t underestimate the power of a cozy atmosphere. Consider adding elements like soft lighting, comfortable blankets, and calming scents from essential oils or candles to your nighttime environment. Scents like rose and sandalwood have been shown to promote relaxation and can make your space more inviting and tranquil, facilitating a smoother transition to sleep. Incorporating relaxation techniques into your nightly routine can also enhance your overall well-being.
Think of your nightly routine as a gift to yourself that pays off in the form of restorative sleep.
Consistency is key to a better nightly routine.

Above all, stick to going to bed and getting up at the same time each day – even on the weekend and when youโre on vacation. Your body and mind will thank you.
Establishing a consistent bedtime ritual can further enhance your sleep quality. Whether it’s a warm bath, journaling your thoughts, or practicing gratitude, having a set of activities you perform every night can help signal your body that it’s time to wind down. You might also find that preparing for the next dayโlike selecting your outfit or packing your lunchโcan alleviate morning stress and promote a more relaxed night.
Ultimately, your nightly routine should reflect what helps you unwind and feel at ease. With each passing day, it can evolve to meet your changing needs and preferences.
Remember, building a nightly routine takes time and patience, but the results are worth it. Through mindfulness and intentionality, your nightly routine can become a cherished part of your day.
The complete series of posts:
- Simple Ways To Introduce Calm Into Your Evenings
- Why You Should Ban Screens From Your Bedroom
- Getting Comfy โ Temperature, Touch, Sound & Scent
- Dealing With Stray Thoughts & Worries At Nighttime
- Relax Your Body Before Bed
- Establish Your Nightly Routine & Stick To It
Additional Resources to Help:
How to Build a Better Bedtime Routine
23 Tips for Your Ideal Nightime Routine
How to Create the Ideal Bedtime for Adults
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